January 2012
63 posts
Dom's 2012 New Years Celebration
New Year spent in bed (not in a good way). Been sick with a fever since yesterday, temp. been moving between normal to dangerously high. Parents are nursing me, by giving me Advil and Tylenol cold. God what the hell is wrong with me??.. If my fever doesn’t completely break by tomorrow, I’m going to the hospital.
Oh Happy New Years! Let’s welcome this new year with some Tylenol...
December 2011
71 posts
Absorbing the Pain
Thanks to my ability, I’ve absorbed enough stress to make me have a fever and sore throat. Oh Happy New Years to me. Why does the holidays create so much stress for people? I should just tell people “Sorry I’m on my vacation right now, I can’t help you”.
But I’ve given up myself for others to many times, it’s hard to say no…
False Intimacy
The First Time
If you have sex right away with someone, you risk creating artificial intimacy. Although you want to have sex with him before the window closes (perhaps when the relationship feels more like a friendship), you have plenty of time to introduce sex into the relationship as you continue to get to know each other
Get Closer: A Gay Men’s Guide to Intimacy and Relationships
I...
Dear Future Boyfriend
Dear Future Boyfriend,
Please talk to me. In all and every situation, I want you to talk to me. No matter how far away we may be, even if we’re have a fight. I want you to keep talking to me. Silence is like a deafening finishing kill blow to me. We don’t have to talk everyday (even though I would love to), just the occasional text message can tide me over. If we fight, I want you to...
Tumblr Dating
I don’t understand this wave of using Tumblr as a dating website. It’s nice to find someone and discover they have a Tumblr, but it’s another thing to follow someone and then try dating.
No offense to those whom do this or found their soul mate from it. But I think it’s a false sense of getting to know someone by reading what they post. Yeah sure, you may know some...
“To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to...”
– Rollo May
That feeling where you hug your pillow
johniseasy:
Whether you’re single or not, you’re always thinking of someone. The pillow is the greatest substitute whenever you feel lonely. No matter how you feel, upset or happy, when you go to bed there’s always that moment you hug your pillow. It gives you that sense of security. Despite that it’s a pillow, you spoon your pillow anyway.
Because you’re thinking of slightly perverted things.
GiveLoveAchance: AIM Stupidness →
aznboisings:
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AIM Stupidness
There was this one guy whom messaged me on Okcupid, so like any other time, I’ll message back and forth for a while. I gave him my sn on AIM just to make things a little faster. And gave him my cell number, not really thinking much about it. Then the worst thing imaginable happens. He messages constantly, like my phone battery was being drained from the...
AIM Stupidness
There was this one guy whom messaged me on Okcupid, so like any other time, I’ll message back and forth for a while. I gave him my sn on AIM just to make things a little faster. And gave him my cell number, not really thinking much about it. Then the worst thing imaginable happens. He messages constantly, like my phone battery was being drained from the amount of beeping it was making.
It...
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GiveLoveAchance: Dear Future Boyfriend →
aznboisings:
Dear Future Boyfriend,
I hope that when you first see me, you won’t fall victim to love at first sight. Yes, that’s right, I want you to see me as just another gay guy (hopefully you’ll think I’m not that bad on the eyes). I don’t want you to fall for me after just one encounter.
I’ll probably be a little flirty with you, but don’t give in, promise me that.
Maybe you meet me...
Something about Random Encounters
Sometimes just the most random encounters you have with someone will brighten up your day. Week.
I think being such an emotional based person, I have a lot of highs and lows. Metaphorically I would be just like the ocean tide. But that thing that gets me through those lows, is simple - a hug, a smile, a conversation, a hand to hold. The the presence of someone being there, makes me feel better.
...
Dear Future Boyfriend
Dear Future Boyfriend,
When we go out on a date one day, let’s pretend to be meeting each other like it’s the first time. We’ll do that whole 20 questions thing, and ask about general things. We’ll pretend to be awkward and of course do the mandatory “awkward pauses”. The date would be like any other one: activity, meal, and drinks. Of course the option of a...
Let It Be
I’ve never been the person to just let things be. I fussed over relationship issues with every boyfriend I’ve been with. Maybe it’s because I’m never the one to just things be. Constantly bringing it up until I’m satisfied when we’ve made a break through.
It’s strange to be trying out a new style. This “going with the flow” is sorta pleasant....
“As one door closes, another one opens.”
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Dear Future Boyfriend
Dear Future Boyfriend,
I know you’ll be the one, cause when we finally admit that we like each other and that we’re both ready to start something. Wherever we are, we’ll meet each other at a specific spot.
I imagine that we’ll finally kiss each other. And we’ll hug each other tightly. And I’ll finally feel that feeling I get when I hug someone special to me -...
Traveling Therapist
My plan is to start traveling after I get my MFT license and have a job as a therapist. I estimate that will be when I’m 25. I’ll visit and stay at a place for a week or maybe two to start exposing myself to different people, cultures, and experiences.
I feel so inadequate when other people describe their worldly experiences/travel. So I’ll travel as much as I can, or at least...
“Is there any limit to the emotion called love? Though I’ve hurt and been...”
“I wonder if you ever looked back in your memories and said, “Dam, I miss...”
Retail vs. Therapy
The difference between having retail experience and therapist experience:
As a retail representative it’s your goal to make that guest a returning customer.
As a therapist, you really don’t want them to be coming back.
Oh the dilemma.
I realize that whenever I do “therapy” with people, I’m happy to be helping them with their problems and to alleviate some...
We are the Monsters
I don’t know why this thought popped in my head, but it was after I talked with and ex’s ex. He told me that my ex (his ex) said that I was on some sort of sex website and would use that to find people to have sex with. When I heard this I thought to myself, “Wow that’s really messed up, I’ve never done anything like that but you’re telling other people,...
“And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you...”
– Fix You - Coldplay
Narrative Therapy: Externalization
When Doubt sneak into your life, what does it tell you?
That maybe he’s no longer interested in me. He probably is seeing another guy by now, cause what’s the point in waiting around for me. I’ve probably hurt him so much, that he’s like “I’m not going to be hurt again” and he’s just distancing himself away. Maybe it’s best that I just stop...
Subconscious Getting Lucky
Subconsciously my dreams have manifested nothing but pleasure. Lynn has been reporting my nightly moaning to be sorta common. Ehh at least my subconscious is getting some.
Study Buddy
While attempting to review my notes for my final on Monday. I thought about how nice it would be to have a boyfriend. Yeah, it might hamper my studying. But he’ll be worth the distraction.
I imagined us being in our pjs, sitting next to each other on the sofa, curled up next to each other with the blanket covering our cold feet. At times he’ll watch me studying and I’ll take...
Dear Future Boyfriend
Dear Future Boyfriend,
I will tell you my greatest flaw/ability on the first date. I disclose this piece of information, not to scare you away, but as a warning. It’ll probably come up when we talk about past relationships; I would say, “I have an amazing ability of empathy, maybe that’s why I’ve always wanted to be a therapist. But in the past, I’ve used this...