March 2012
83 posts
February 2012
82 posts
Club Medic
They say when you drink that your inhibitions come out: I guess my unleashed side is just the same as my every day side. Yes, I’m that guy. The one that you can pass the drinks to and I’ll match you drink for drink - but I’ll be the same old me. I don’t make passes at guys, I don’t start fights, I’m not staggering around crying my eyes out. I’m a...
Run aways
The reason why I’m trying not to like anyone right now is because when I chase someone, they run away.
I have to be indifferent if you like me. I have to be apathetic if you leave. If you make me feel something, I can’t let you know.
Because this year as taught me, that if I care, your going to leave. And all I’ll be left with is me and my stupid feelings.
“If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a women, he’ll not only...”
– Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Agnov
“Anything a person chases in life runs away.”
– Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov
Tumblr Class
Note to self: Don’t look at Tumblr while in class.
The reason: My screen is filled with pictures of half naked guys/girls.
…. at least my neighbors get an eye full of yummy eye candy :]
Playing Games
It’s true that a guy will tell you anything to get into your pants.
And the moment you give it up, they leave.
Try
Clients will walk into my office with an array of problems: mental illness, relational conflict, personal growth, etc. Whatever the case, I’m always willing to be along side them and help them through the process. But my only requirement is that they try.
I don’t expect anyone to master anything. As long as you do your best and attempt to do something, you’ll get nothing but...
“Many women believe that men want a women who will do…whatever they tell...”
– Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov
Mantra
Keep a distance. Don’t get attached. Keep your dignity. Don’t move fast.
“In my life nothing goes wrong. When things seem to not meet my expectations, I...”
– Deepak Chopra (via blua)
Usually the unexpected causes me to stress out. But sometimes, unexpected things can be pretty good.
“Don’t settle because you’re afraid you won’t find something better. Don’t...”
– Jackson Kiddard (via elige)
"Nothing More, Nothing Less": You're worth the... →
pongyuo:
I may not have met you yet and I don’t know if I ever will. I can only hope that one day maybe it will happen and we can live happily ever after.. but hey, that’s all I can do. I guess I’m ‘old school’ and still believe in happily ever afters, but who doesn’t? I want to find someone who will accept me for who I am, who will help me when I need it, who will not be embarrassed to be with...
"Remind Me"
The world has gotten busier. We can barely fit sleep into our daily schedules. The projects at work, balancing the bills, getting your dry cleaning - the list is endless. It’s understandable to have overbooked yourself for the day and forgetting you made plans with someone. But telling someone to remind you about meeting them… I just think that’s a big no-no. It makes the other...
Love as Though You have Never Been Hurt Before
What we carry onto our next relationship is sometimes a little ills of our past ones. Unresolved issues as I would like to call them. In the new relationship we try to sometimes work on those unresolved issues with our new partner, only to realize that it’s a failed attempt. Sometimes the hurt from our past makes its harder for new relationships to fully form.
I over heard this from my best...
Follies of Dating a Therapist-in-Training
When going out with a therapist-in-training realize that your going out with someone whose going to be empathetic, understanding, great at listening, and has a sense of curiosity. Understand that these traits are what makes someone to be a great therapist. These traits are something we don’t just happen to switch on and off, it’s a constant, ingrained through personality or training.
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Valentine
There’s no better day than to get lost in the feelings of those around me. To watch all these couples go all out on one day out of the year - to express their love for each other.
I won’t be bitter when the day rolls around. I’m going to smile and feel all the love out there. What better way to spend Valentines day then to spread love, not hate.
Happy Valentines day everyone!
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Off - On
Whenever I see your status change being offline to online. I just stare at it, debating if I should even message you. I wonder if you think about messaging me. I’m trying to stay committed to my vow, of cutting off attachments - but it’s the “what-ifs” that gets to me.
What if I made the effort, will he be interested in me? What if I waited long enough, will he realize...
Afraid of Love
Don’t let the fear of being in love again keep you from trying again. I’ve talked with a lot of people and when they tell me they found someone new, they always say the same thing, “Dom, I’m just scared to open myself again like that - I’m just scared of falling in love.” And I say to them that’s its completely normal to be afraid. If you didn’t have...
