GiveLoveAchance

What we carry onto our next relationship is sometimes a little ills of our past ones. Unresolved issues as I would like to call them. In the new relationship we try to sometimes work on those unresolved issues with our new partner, only to realize that it’s a failed attempt. Sometimes the hurt from our past makes its harder for new relationships to fully form.

I over heard this from my best friend’s conversation with her boyfriend but he said something interesting, “Man, it’s unfair that you’ve had all these good things ruined for you after you were with him. It’s unfair to the next person.” This was said a few days ago, but it resonated with me.

Yeah, it’s unfair that the past has profound effects on the present/future. But what we need to learn is to heal old wounds before we continue on our journeys towards happiness. And to start fresh with each new relationship, without the burdens of past ones.

Love as though you have never been hurt before…